Tuesday, April 10, 2012


source : jonathanhilton.com

A mundane but one of the most significant subjects in our life that is F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P. I was called to post this due to recent happening in our life. I don't intend to mention any names nor pseudonym though I may do so given the outburst I was having on that very day. What I'd like to highlight here is that a true friend is like a gem among sands. How to identify a true friend ?

1) Almost everyone has a facebook account. Try closing your FB account and see out of hundreds friends listed in your list, how many of them still in contact with you?

2) Pretend that you are in need of money and no one to turn to. Ask your friends for a loan and see who are willing to give.

3) Identify who is/are always attend all your invites without excuse.

4) Identify who is/are always ask to lend his/her hands for you even when you need them the least

5) Identify who frequent to your house for different occasions be it newborn, parties, feast, moving out/in or the death of any family members.

Other than the above test, subjective test can be self administered in search of a true friend. To whom that you feel relieved when you are in trouble, who is always support and suggest for your betterment are the key questions that you may ask your ownself.

Let us be a true friend to someone. A friend who does not turn to another only when in difficulty and forgets the latter when in comfort.

A true friend, are you?

1 comment:

  1. Assalamualaikum Mummy Umar,
    salam kenal dari Amie, follow sini ye